Some time ago, going up the stairs, not for the first time, I saw a lot of people who were standing on the stairs and making an unnecessary plunger and no one could go over, and then I started comparing it to a traffic jam. What intrigued me the most, is how it's possible that the stairs couldn't be crossed, because people stand and look at all sides, instead of go briskly and quickly. I don't hide it, after a while it started to irritate me. But that's not what it's all about. Well, I'm curious about which it's caused by. Maybe because people aren't in a hurry; that they don't attract more attention to it? It's possible, but from what I have noticed, a lot of people, also those walking slow down the stairs, complain about traffic jams. Very often, they complain about other people that they drive too slowly, that they drive without focus etc. In that case, they behave in the same way, but on the stairs. Maybe I exaggerate, but in my opinion people shouldn't complain about the behavior of others, if they behave the same only in different situations.
Currently, the weather is very unpleasant, it's raining, and soon it will be snowing, it's cold and windy. Many people sit at home and think that they can not do any sport outside in such weather, because it's uncomfortable, and I have heard many times that they can not do what they want because of the conditions. Also, many people give up their plans when they see bad weather outside the window. For example, when I told some people that I had training in such weather, they reacted with great surprise - "Well, how can you practice in such weather when it's close to 2 ° C outside, it's raining and there is a very big wind". Then I explained to them that "there is no bad weather is only bad clothing" and regardless of external factors, you must achieve your goals. In my case, I want to increase my football skills, and that it's outside, and I have no influence on it. To sum up, bad weather can verify, how much you care about something and wheth...
People are self-centred and don't pay attention to other people's needs. What I am doing now is the most important thing and the rest doesn't matter.
OdpowiedzUsuńI have the save opinion about complaining other people's behaviour. Unfortunately most of people think only about themselves, their problems and comfort. And love to complain about other people, although they sometimes also behave in the way which they now criticize.
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